An unpalatable truth can be difficult to accept, but when a great
evil afflicting millions of nice, decent and friendly people is flourishing
unhindered, I believe it must not be allowed to go unchallenged. It
is my firm conviction that, in truth, the American psyche is psychologically,
emotionally and sexually sick to its very core.
Behind a many-layered, glossy coating of collectively-contrived imagery
projecting happiness and success through materialism lies a deeply disturbed,
emotionally-frozen and self-deceptive society; a nation bedevilled by
an internalized mix of concealed anxiety, distorted values, dishonest
communication, sexual fears and corrupt relationships, all of which
have conspired to perpetuate abnormal behaviour as the norm in American
life for well over a century.
Emotionally-compromised in every facet of individual and collective
expression, the American people are trapped in a neurotic, rage-ridden
syndrome of intimate disharmony, sexual paralysis, deceit, fear, conflict
and manipulation without parallel in the history of the planet. Psychologically
speaking, America is a boil which urgently needs to be lanced, and in
dire need of a large-scale, action-oriented, therapeutic intervention.
The time has come to nail the insidious, conspiratorial lie of the
distant, painful, artificial and self-destructive state of intimate
relating in America, and to put an end to the evil scourges of fear,
dishonesty and conflict that divide American men and women - FOR GOOD.
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Dear
Citizens of America,
HANG
ON TO YOUR HATS! A new and fearlessly frank, psychological appraisal
of your great country is, we believe, about to become THE
self-help/relationship sensation of the book world.
Foreign observers have long
regarded America as psychologically 'different', but now, after his 30-year
long, independent study of its mental world, the British author of an electrifying
book titled LETTER TO AMERICA concludes from observing established
behaviour patterns and characteristics that: "Americans' true feelings
lie buried under a century of repression", adding: "The
society is a breeding ground of fear, conflict, neurosis, denial and lies in which
everyone raised therein is involuntarily conditioned by inherent psychosocial
and cultural forces into a state of emotional and sexual detachment - and, once
afflicted - remain so throughout their lives!'
In this powerful but engagingly compassionate, psychobabble-demolishing
analysis, the mysteries of American life are brought into sharp focus
in a single volume. London psychoanalyst Bill Howard demonstrates
how Americans' behaviour is indicative of far deeper psychological problems
than they are willing to admit.
With challenging and uncompromisingly forthright assertions on how the
twin evils of DENIAL and SEXUAL REPRESSION totally
dominate the emotions, thought patterns and lifestyles of the American
people, Howard contends that a unique malaise he dubs: 'The American
Neurosis' took root in their psyche over a century ago, and has
evolved into a 'collective emotional disorder'; a massive,
deep-rooted emotional block that has been, in his words '... systematically
poisoning intimate relationships in America ever since'. In a
social environment with no outlet for genuine emotional release, American
relating, according to Howard, has become: '... a living lie; a
gargantuan psychological diversion from reality.'
Howard
maintains that behind its often brash, image-conscious, super-rich and overly-confident
façade lies an anxiety-fixated and artificial society; a self-delusional,
emotionally armour-plated conspiracy in which every citizen is conditioned, to
varying degrees, into adopting a phoney role.
Highlighting the specific inaccuracies of intimate communication
signals, perceptions and responses between American men and women,
he argues that '...they are environmentally programmed to
deny natural human emotional intensity and, afraid to acknowledge
and reveal their real selves, embrace a world of phoney, materialistic
alternatives'.
So severely are they emotionally-benumbed, so wary are couples
of genuine intimacy, they even engage in sex '... without
fully discharging their natural, libidinal (sexual) impulses. This
widespread lack of sexual gratification fuels their relentless national
obsession with sex and sexual fantasies.'
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Clear, direct and pulling no punches, Howard explodes the starry-eyed
myths America's image-makers would have us believe. Stringing together
a bewildering spectrum of seemingly unconnected factors he skilfully interprets
the sexually-repressive significance of everything from skyscrapers, blondes,
guns, gangs, acting 'big and tough' and overt materialism to feminism,
stretch-limos, rap, slang, entertainment, lawyers, talk shows, the cult
of celebrity and even Barbie dolls. These elements, and many thousands
more, are manifestations of, and compensation for, Americans'
'abrogated masculinity and frozen femininity'; and, he claims,
all form part of a 'subconscious cry for help' to which
Letter To America is the long-overdue response!
Bill Howard's stated aim is to open Americans'
eyes to a festering issue which for too long has been skirted around, glossed
over or ignored, adding that the evidence for his theory defies any system of
logic to refute it. Logically structured and very comprehensive, his simple philosophy
is that all societies are derived from a common source, and that humanity's unifying
thread is the need to feel that you belong and can relate happily with your loved
ones. His effective relationship therapy includes practical approaches to improving
daily living by optimising interpersonal interactions through honesty, vulnerability,
emotional support, warmth, mutual respect, caring and sharing.
An authoritative template for inter-gender equilibrium, this stimulating
addition to our understanding of the human mind offers a distinct context
in which to confront a societal trend that badly needs to be reversed,
with a simple and effective strategy for rededicating Americans to the
ideal of emotional honesty.
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